Archive for October, 2007

Pilates Basics And Everything You Need To Know About Pilates

Tuesday, October 30th, 2007
by Tammy Foster

During World War I, Joseph Pilates developed a group of exercises to benefit bed bound patients during the recovery from war wounds. Not only did this group of exercises benefit the patients, this initial group of exercises ultimately came to be known as the basic of Pilates. Joseph H. Pilates eventually left England and came to New York where he eventually gained a rabid Pilates following.

Pilates basics are known for using intense concentration on a specific body part as well as on a specific series of breathing techniques while you perform a prescribed series of movements. It is the combination of these challenges which make Pilates a champion exercise.

One of the keys to Pilates is your ability to focus on your powerhouse or your abdomen. This Pilates secret allows you to direct your concentration on the core of your body and by doing so Joseph Pilates taught that your body would begin to work more efficiently as a whole unit. This causes your muscles to work through their full range of motion.

The rectus abdominis, the transverse abdominis, and the internal and external obliques make up the powerhouse of your body’s core. It is this combination of muscles along with the muscles of the spine that are the focus of intensity during the traditional Pilates exercises. A strong core is better able to support your body and to give you the balance and flexibility that you need.

The basics of Pilates also leads to improvement in your balance, your coordination and flexibility and even in your strength. It is a bit hard to believe but by focusing on your powerhouse and moving through each Pilates exercise you will soon feel the difference in your body.

Yes, Pilates is rather similar to yoga but there are also many distinct differences, particularly since Pilates focuses so heavily on the powerhouse and breathing combination. One of the hardest versions of Pilates to hit the market is the Winsor Pilates system designed my Mari Winsor. Mari designed her method of Pilates on the original but with a twist she calls “dynamic sequencing” which means the order in which you perform the exercises make them more effective. Mari Winsor Pilates has a very loyal and devout following.

One of the best things about Pilates is that it is gentle on the joints. For this reason it can be practiced by the majority of all folks, even those who are just getting started with a fitness routine. Many Pilates practitioners believe this form of exercise will leave you feeling better and not worse.

Pilates will leave you feeling taller, leaner, energized and confident. The breathing exercises that accompany all Pilates movements will help you to feel calmer and more centered.

So why not give Pilates a try? You will be glad you did and your body will thank you for it! The basics of Pilates give you a certain set of exercises along with specific breathing patterns all focused on helping your tone and strengthen your abdominal powerhouse.

Pilates basics is a well organized and thoughtful series of exercises that can help you to find more strength, tone, and even confidence. Most of all Pilates can help you to restore and maintain your health. After all, isn’t healthy living what it’s all about!

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Parterapi (Couples Therapy) - It May Save Your Marriage

Monday, October 29th, 2007
by Ilan Wolffberg

With divorce rates at close to a world record, parterapi (Danish for couples therapy) is a little word of vital importance to many couples in tiny Scandinavian Denmark.

Many people I’ve asked, see parterapi as a last ditch effort prior to divorce. Dissatisfied and disgruntled for a long time, one may have tried with long talks and arguments. Nothing helps. One may have spoken with friends and relatives, priests and bartenders - good advice is hard to find. Eventually one is close to giving up.

Parterapi is the last resort in an attempt to save a relationship on the downslide. Many also perceive having to pay for help, to make a loving relationship work, as a defeat. And it’s probably expensive as well. . .

When a couple arrives at therapy, the expectations of the two individuals are very often quite dissimilar. For some the end has already been reached. Hope is gone and help is needed to end the often painful situation. The man, or the woman, may not really want to go into therapy but has let him/herself be “dragged” into therapy so as not be regarded as the one who, in the end, wasn’t willing, or able to take part in the rescue attempt.

Many people come with expectations of getting some quick advice on how to shore up their partnership so they can continue happily just as before it all started to change.

- and many are told, to their surprise, that the therapist cannot offer a magical cure. They discover that they need to begin a period of hard work and that the help they can get from a therapist consists of guidance and support in the rebuilding of a stable and trustful relationship. They also discover that it may take more time than they thought and that the work involved may be harder than anticipated and that progress may not be smooth but that relapses can be expected. Hopefully they will share laughter and tears along the way and find the courage to continue.

It takes courage to reveal oneself to another. Courage to share one’s thoughts and aspirations, courage to share one’s innermost feelings. It takes courage to show one’s strengths and weaknesses and courage to stand up - fearful and without protection - and encounter another, open and vulnerable.

Boy ! Not strange that so many give up after a couple of tries. Or never even begin.

For those who make it through, the pain and effort are well worth the reward. An increase in self confidence, self assurance and optimism about the relationship and about life in general are often the result. The couple leaves equipped with strategies for ways of solving problems and disagreements and smoothing out difficulties. They gain insights into their own resources and into new ways of confronting each other, life and the world around them. They learn to treasure their differences.

They often say to themselves in the end: “Why did we wait such a long time?”, “What prevented us from starting earlier?”, “I wonder where we’d be today if we’d started all this long, long ago?”, “If only we had known”

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Insurance Sales: Turn Trade Shows into Premium Lead Events

Monday, October 29th, 2007
by Cheryl A. Clausen

Identify the trade shows that your best prospects attend and make sure that’ll you’ll be there and have a clear plan to use this opportunity to increase your insurance sales. You don’t have to spend hundreds or thousands of dollars renting a space at the event, in fact that’s one of the last things you want to do. You can get numerous great leads without having to rent a booth. Renting a booth actually inhibits your potential for the event because when you have to man a booth you can’t mingle and meet with the other vendors. It’s no secret that most trade shows are annual events so it’s easy for you to plan and prepare for the event. Don’t go unless you have your sales strategy developed for increasing your insurance sales success. In most cases the event will be held at a hotel or a convention center connected to a hotel. In addition to walking the trade show you may also want to rent a meeting room during the event and use a pre-event direct mail campaign to invite prospects to visit you and get a special valuable gift. You may also want to host an invitation only cocktail hour at the end of the day just for your best prospects.

When you walk the trade show make sure you meet as many potential prospects as possible. A great way to make sure that happens is to know the names and locations of every vendor at the event. As you meet people be sure to have something of value to offer them. This helps you to make a connection. Have your entire marketing and sales strategy mapped out for the event far enough in advance to have everything prepared for the big event. Proper planning ensures you can get the most value from the time and dollars you invest in the event in terms of the valuable leads with real potential for insurance sales success.

Arrive at the event early so you can get set up and know where everything is before the crowd descends. Contact the people running the event and volunteer to help. Working in some capacity at the event for a few hours will help you to get exposure to the right people. You may want to greet attendees as they enter and hand information about the event.

Perhaps you want to visit the booths early and bring each vendor a cup of coffee. Be prepared to position yourself for the most exposure, and be prepared with a great attention getting core marketing message. And no matter what your plan of attack always have something to offer the people you meet that they would really want so you can start the connection.

Your offer is the key to the whole lead generation process. Come up with something that is a value added proposition. Something your prospects would really want and it doesn’t have to be something tangible. In fact, information that isn’t readily available but really helpful or useful will encourage others to reach out to you.

The first step to using this sales technique is getting the attention of the people you want to connect with. But you don’t want to do it in a pushy way. Remember you’re not a booth holder. You’re either walking the trade show or inviting people to connect with you at your own event near the trade show, so you just need to meet and greet people and make a friend; and then mention this valuable something you’d like them to have.

Don’t waste the leads you get at trade shows. When you don’t follow-up or follow-up fast enough those initially hot leads turn into cold cold calls. And you certainly didn’t need to go to all that planning to get a cold call list. Have a system to follow-up with those leads in within 72 hours. Your follow-up plan of attack should include your approach to expanding on that initial connection and building the relationship. Top producers are top producers because they put this sales coaching idea to work for them and they work their plan.

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Life Insurance: Is It A Foolish Purchase?

Monday, October 29th, 2007
by Jim Russo

Are life insurance companies taking from the poor and giving to the rich? Are their premium rates higher than what they need to be? You probably have asked yourself the same questions many times.

First, we can probably assume that you and I agree that it is difficult to defend any large corporation. If we accept that almost as a universal given then the real question you and I need to ask ourselves is, are insurance companies giving us a fair exchange for our premium dollar?

Is probably worth while, however, for us to participate as consumers in the life insurance picture. In its simplest form life insurance is simply a case of spreading risk across a large group of people so you and I might benefit. Of course, in its role as an administrator the life insurance Company probably makes an out better than anyone else but the product or service that they all for is an extremely important one.

The best perspective for us as consumers is to focus less on how much profit the insurance companies are making and look instead at how we can profit from the situation. There is no doubt that in many, many cases individuals do profit enormously.

Yes it is true that the only way someone benefits from a life insurance policy normally is through a death but unselfish love looks past the punch line and sees how it will help the beneficiary of a life insurance policy. Unless you are able to actually live to be 100 years old it is extremely likely that your beneficiary will receive more money from the insurance company then what you paid into it in the way of premiums. If the value of a life insurance policy is $500,000 it is likely that the premium payer spent all whole lot less than that for this financial protection.

For the average person is probably to say that it is usually in the context of marriage and a family that we talk about and consider the purchase of a life insurance policy. While most families to have two or more sources of income it is still true that because we live or one each source of income in the absence of one source of income through death will still work a financial hardship one the other.

As with any purchase when we are dealing with individuals we frequently come out ahead as opposed to dealing directly with a cold and impersonal corporation. In an age when the average consumer is much more sophisticated about their purchases the overwhelming majority of people seek out local independent agents for all of their Insurance purchases. Simply remember that while most agents are only motivated to find you the cheapest price because of their desire to earn a decent living it are still wise for you to compare the offerings of two or more agents against the authors.

So, are insurance companies stealing from us? Probably your point of view determines the best way to answer this important question. There is no doubt that the majority of insurance companies do make exorbitant profits year to year but that does not make it an unwise purchase for you. The financial bottom line frequently is simply that for a few hundred dollars of premium per year many people do buy hundreds of thousands of dollars in insurance protection for their family.

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What You Need To Know About Parenting Techniques

Monday, October 29th, 2007
by Robert William Locke

You never thought being a parent was like this, did you ?. Fact is ,childhood disorders and disabilities create a crisis in the parent and child relationship, often affecting the quality of the attachment. But parents tend to use the same parenting techniques over and over again, even when it’s clear what they’re doing is not working in getting a child’s behaviour to change.

Parenting techniques are important because cases involving child abuse or neglect can often result from parents who “go too far” when they are trying to discipline their children. Once parents learn a few parenting techniques, there will be no need to load them into the car and drive them to a distant professional.

The behaviour of parents will always be a a model for their children That means that children will rarely do what you TELL them to do especially if this is in stark contrast to what the children have seen the parents doing, time and time again.

Parents can move in new and unexpected ways, which throws the children off guard; it may shift tension and anger to silence and laughter instantly. Above all, you use natural consequences for misbehaviour instead of punishment, so the children have to look at how they created their predicaments instead of getting angry at their parents for punishing them. Children can no longer claim that punishments or expectations are unfair, and parents can take on the role of calmly enforcing the pre-arranged consequences instead of having to impress upon the child the seriousness of the problem and scramble to find an appropriate punishment.

If the ground rules have been established by ALL the family, then it is up to the parents to enforce consequences when family rules are broken. The temptation to react emotionally when children break rules is alleviated because a breach of the rules is no longer perceived as an assault on parental authority, since it is by the authority of the family, not the authority of the parents, that the rules were established.

Guerrilla parenting techniques are sometimes recommended by child therapists. This is reacting to your child’s behaviour in a totally unexpected way which I have mentioned above. If a child is fighting with his or her sibling, then there is no point in sending him to his room. Much better to get him to do his sibling’s jobs the next day. That is the consequnce of his actions and that has a much greater effect on the child than a mere punishment. Guerrilla parenting tactics do not mean belittling the child, though.

Try giving your child a tisue when he or she is acting in a really snotty way. There is no need to say anything - just let him or her figure it out. You know when a child repeatedly says ‘That’s stupid’. If this gets on your nerves, you can do something very strange like walking backwards and say ‘This is stupid’. Again,there is no need to explain your action.- the child will be taken aback.

If you would like to learn more about parenting techniques used by a doctor with his own family, the site listed below will be an enormous help to you. This doctor had two children with ADHD and through his parenting techniques, he was able to make them into happy, good children.

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No Excuse Plant Care - Everyone Has A Green Thumb

Monday, October 29th, 2007
by Brad Lelliot

People and house plants have a lot in common, most of the time it’s much easier to prevent a disease than working on curing the patient. Associations, college degrees, technical reports, published studies and numerous books have been written all focused on diseases and insects concerning the world of plants, for food, industry and pleasure.

If you venture into the world of indoor house plants the amount, which fall prey to death by disease is small when compared to the “disease of neglect” or lack of correct plant care information when caring for many varieties of plants. This article serves as a basic guidepost on the road to success with your indoor house plants.

Two types of plant neglect cause failure with indoor plants. Neglect or total lack of plant knowledge causing over care and the other is the total disregard in paying any attention to the plants in the house. Now I’ve purposely neglected plants being tested to see how tough they were. In fact, this neglect helped discover weakness in producing the houseplant commercially.

To succeed with plants indoors it’s important to provide them an environment and atmosphere for them to flourish. This means providing water, light, and pruning as needed, and overall, good living conditions which include the correct pot size for the plant. These living conditions also include temperatures the plant thrives in, humidity, and a place the plant can establish itself indoors.

Most houseplants grown today will not need daily baby-sitting like a young child. Some varieties of foliage plants such as Aspidistra, Bromeliads, Sansevieria and Aglaonema plus most cactus and succulent varieties have low demand and need minimal care.

However, most houseplants found in your home will require some form of attention and care. This care cost is easy, inexpensive, and delivers big payoffs in both enjoyment they deliver and the sheer beauty they provide to a room.

Basic plant care knowledge will help tremendously improve and even reduce the care needed for your houseplants. Many times the knowledge for success may come down to selecting a great plant but putting it in the wrong place. For example, a Ficus can be a great indoor plant when placed in a room with lots of direct light, yet it can become a true non-performer when in low light levels. Selecting a plant that will handle in the lower light level would be a much better choice. Some plants demand or need as much light as possible.

Most indoor plants to survive, can adapt to a wide variety of growing conditions and environments. Today’s modern home may include more technology advances but was not designed for house plants. Builders and architects incorporated modern conveniences and may have included some plant shelves but did not take into account the light needed to keep the plants alive! Even if your house was not designed for plants, a cactus and fern can still call the same room home. However, for that to happen plant selection must be taken into account and combined with the environment to make the best match for both room and plant. That’s the easiest way to bring out the green thumb hiding inside of everyone.

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Adolescents and Obesity

Monday, October 29th, 2007
by Ruff Raun

Children are facing the perils of obesity at an alarming rate with 17% of kids between the ages of 6 to 19 being overweight or obese, according to researchers.

Many parents find themselves in a dilemma where they simply don’t have the time to properly monitor their childrens eating habits and they are unintentionally depriving the kids of healthy well balanced, home prepared meals.

Fast food style restaurants are more concerned with their bottom line rather than feeding the consumer with an inexpensive, healthy, low calorie tasty meal. Kids and parents keep going back for more since it fills you up, taste good and it’s affordable.

The poor are really in the grips of fast food eating, since you can fill up on belly, butt and thigh busting foods for under $5.00.

Becoming overweight or obese is a symptom of inactivity and poor eating habits and if not prevented, the child will grow up with all of the health, employment and social issues associated with obesity, so it is important that parents take steps now before the kids need to start dieting.

Parents need to set a good example for their children and apply healthy living to their own lifestyles and emphasize the importance of eating properly and making exercise and physical activity a part of their own daily lives.

Obesity wasn’t an issue in past generations, if a child wasn’t helping with the many chores that needed to be done, they were out on the street or on the ball field playing fun cardiovascular, stamina type sports and games, but today most children find television and computer games a way of life.

50% of American families today don’t have a sit down meal together, allowing kids to make their own food choices or given an allowance for a pizza or you guessed it(fast food). Kids that have a parent at home have a better chance at the rewards of balanced meals.

Schools have finally jumped on the nutritional bandwagon and have added more balanced food products while reducing or elliminating many of the high fat and cholesterol foods, according to a 2006 study by School Health Policies and Programs Study (SHPPS). Parents can rest a little easier knowing that the school system is making great strides in educating and offering healthier foods.

What the schools are doing now to help curb obesity amongst children can be applied in the home by providing less foods high in fat, and more healthy choices of fruits and vegetables and whole grain products. Also, school districts required 87.1% of high chools, 85.1% of middle schools and 77.4 % of elementary schools to teach nutrition education.

Tips: Prepare healthy meals ahead of the school week that are full of the daily needed nutrients and elliminate all the bad food stuff such as deep fried potatoes and other high fat products. Cold whole grain cereal or oatmeal for breakfast and large salads sprinkled with whole grain and protein rich meat for dinner is one easy method and have delicious fruit for dessert. Reduce or eliminate cookies, candy cola, cake and chips, or be creative and find a recipe for whole grain desserts.

The formula for maintaining a healthy weight is no different for children than it is for adults. Burn more calories than you take in and you have the best chance possible for weight control. School sports or sports outside the class room is one surefire fat burning activity, but if this isn’t feesible encourage the kids to start the day with some aerobics and stretching that will counteract all the TV and computer sitting, or 10 minutes of exercise for every hour they sit.

It is the responsibility of the parents and school administrators to guide the kids towards healthy choices and enlighten them to the benefits of exercise and avoiding bad food choices so they can avoid being victims of obesity related diseases that include diabetes, heart disease, cancer and premature death.

Research: One study found that 25% of obese adults were overweight as children and if being overweight begins before the age of 8 years, obesity in adulthood is likely to be more severe. Source: Centers For Disease Control (CDC)

One study conducted by Pamela Salsberry, Ph.D., lead author and an associate professor at OSU, noted that “there’s a very good chance that an overweight child will stay overweight for the rest of his or her life”. ” A child who is overweight by her second birthday is more likely to be overweight at a later age. Source: National Institutes of Health (NIH)

Conclusion: Before and after pregnancy the same formula applies; Everyday physical activity + balanced diet = Good Health

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What Are Cross Stitch Forums?

Monday, October 29th, 2007
by John Wigham

Quite often, when learning a new hobby, you wish you had someone to ask questions. You may have misunderstood the directions, made a mistake and don’t know how to fix it, or simply want to seek the advice of someone who has been involved in the craft for a longer time than you. This is normal, especially if no one you know enjoys the craft. Cross stitch forums are available online to give you the support and help that you need.

Normally if you’re learning a new craft, you will be shown how. In the case of cross stitch, it’s not a difficult craft, so people may think they can learn without help. And, while it is true that cross stitch is one of the easier crafts, you may still have questions. A cross stitch forum is the perfect place to find helpful people to answer your questions and encourage you.

The best way to find a cross stitch forum is by doing a search. Open Yahoo, Google, MSN, AOL, or another search engine and search the words, “cross stitch forums”. There should be a return of hundreds, if not thousands, of hits. Start opening the pages to see if you can find a forum that appeals to you.

Before joining a cross stitch forum, you will probably want to determine exactly what it is you’re looking for in a forum. Do you want a place where people are there to help you if you make mistakes, or do you want to learn about new stitches? Do you desire to learn about free pattern websites, or do you need to find sources for material and threads? A forum can meet these needs, and more.

Believe it or not, even when communicating with fellow cross stitch enthusiasts, you should always give careful thought to how much personal information you share on the web. True friendships are definitely possible, because you have your love of cross stitch as a common ground. Make sure you read the forum’s rules for posting before you join also. Forum etiquette is also important to know. Don’t let all this sound intimidating, though. It is really as simple as finding a spot that feels comfortable, filling out a simple registration form and jumping into the ongoing conversations. Don’t be afraid to introduce yourself and ask questions if you have any.

Some cross stitch forums will specialize in tips and tricks to complete projects. Others will include sections where you can show off completed work. Still others will include sections where you can advertise and sell completed projects. You might even find a forum that lists free projects, or discounts on supplies. Most forums have a general chit-chat section.

Cross stitch forums can’t take the place of your grandmother, but don’t overlook them. I wouldn’t have been sitting in a rocking chair on the farm porch in Amish country, stitching with my new found friend, if I hadn’t joined in!

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Christmas Guy Gifts

Monday, October 29th, 2007
by Kerry Beck

Does your the guy in your life like to be spoiled? Before you book a session for him at Elizabeth Arden or with a masseuse, buy him an Art of Shaving gift set. At $100, it is too expensive for a person on a tight budget, but it comes with useful items: an all natural hair shaving brush, pre-shaving oil, shaving cream, aftershave balm, and an enticing book, Art of Shaving. He’ll feel he’s pampered by you.

If $100 is too expensive, you can still give him the Ingrown Hair Kit which comes with an informative DVD that will help him get rid of those ugly ingrown hairs on the face. This has become a problem because some men use inferior shaving accessories and products that contain alcohol. They can have difficulties dealing with ingrown hair on the face and don’t know how to remove it. It’s absolutely a guy thing. For 65 bucks, you can relieve him of his problems and be like his fairy godmother (even if you’re his sister, girlfriend or wife) Actually, you should let him know that the Ingrown Hair night cream was selected as Best Mens’s skin care product for 2006.

So maybe he only uses a dry electric shaver. Electronics such as electric shavers make favorite presents and are practical and easy on the budget. You can also consider elegant timepieces, wallets, scarf and gloves set; all which can be bought at your local store. To top it off, add a $25 certificate to make your present even better and more appealing.

Just for fun, you can head down to your nearest car dealer with your favorite man in tow, and test drive a Honda, or better yet, a Hummer. You can both dream and he’ll appreciate the quality time you’ll be spending with him. If you go to the local Harley-Davidson retailer, you can also find everything from Harley t-shirts to mugs.

Still having a hard time? The best choice is by tucking a wad of cash into his shoe, or just get him a luxurious and cozy Cashmere sweater in an eye catching color; very popular in winter months. A lot of guys may not feel confident about their color selection and he’ll be thanking you a lot for your effort and good taste.

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Internet Business… The Easy Life?

Monday, October 29th, 2007
by Rich Schefren

Have you always wanted your own Internet business? One that you can run from home and still have it make you enough money to quit your day job? If so, you’re like a lot of people. But what if you don’t really know how to start a business online? And what about taking the business and turning it into a raging success?

Well don’t worry, because you’re not alone. Many new business owners don’t have a clue how to build an online business the right way. That’s why the statistics from the Small Business Administration are so shocking, but a dose of the reality of running a successful business.

Starting and running a business is not easy. Most new businesses will fail soon. And most of the rest will fail after a few years. But don’t let this affect your dreams of being an Internet business entrepreneur.

Here’s a tip on what to do to make your dreams come true. Prepare yourself for running an Internet business. That’s it. Before you start, make sure you at least have an idea of what it will take to be successful.

But here’s a word of warning… Too much preparation is a bad thing. And getting your information from the wrong sources is like the kiss of death. The key is to find a qualified source to teach you what you must know about starting and building an Internet business the right way.

Find that mentor or business coach and follow the advice they give you. By cutting out all of the other noise, you will get started a lot faster. Then you can concentrate on making your Internet business better as time goes on. There’s a lot to be said for learning-by-doing.

Once you’ve actually started your online business, your biggest learning opportunities will come from the mistakes you make. You’ll see exactly where your knowledge needs to be improved and what skills you need at this moment. Because you won’t be worried about starting your business. You will have a functional, living Internet business that is continually a work in progress.

What’s so cool is that once your Internet business is up and running, you will learn so much faster. And you won’t get in the trap of letting frustration and overwhelm bog you down from having way to much information to digest and remember.

If you just remember that failures and mistakes are a good thing, you won’t feel the need to start your Internet business perfectly. As long as you learn from each setback, and you will have setbacks, you’ll be on the road to building the business of your dreams. And instead of taking in new information every day and never starting your business, you’ll see how business really works. That includes how money fills your bank account when you’re doing things right.

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